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The
Institution of Marriage
by Pastor Larry Bennett
It is an institution that has been around for thousands of years and yet its
very foundation is being attacked and challenged in our days. It is the
subject of political debates as we look to the national elections in
November. Some are calling for amendments to state and national
constitutions in order to protect it, while others march in protest wanting
to change it. It is a hot topic. Of course, I am referring to the
“Institution of Marriage”.
Everyone has an opinion, but I thought it would be good to go back to the
first marriage ceremony, which is found in Genesis
2:18-25, to see what marriage is really all about. As we examine
Genesis 2:18-25 several points
are clear.
Marriage was Created by God
God was responsible for every aspect of creation including marriage.
Creation did not evolve over thousands or millions of years -- it was the
direct result of God’s creation in six literal days. Marriage was also a
direct result of God’s creation as Genesis 2 records that God made man and
woman and then brought them together to be united in marriage (2:24). If
God was the original creator of marriage, then certainly He decides what it
will be. A government does not have that right to change marriage, nor do
the times or the peoples; only its creator, and He says it is to involve a
man and a woman. It is not a “marriage” if it is not a man and a woman
joined together.
Marriage is to Honor God
At the conclusion of each 24-hour day of creation, we find God looking at
His handiwork and declaring, “It was very good.” It was pleasing to God’s
eyes and all of creation was to honor and bring glory to God.
Marriage, as part of God’s creation, was also to bring honor and glory to
God. The focus in marriage was not just about a man and a woman being
joined together, but about glory rising up to God. I wonder if we focused
upon marriage as an “institution created to glorify God,” would it not
change the debates today on marriage? People today seem to view marriage as
just a “civil institution,” and not a creation of God meant to glorify Him.
Marriage is not about man or governments, but about God.
Marriage is to Be Pure
Genesis 2:24 declares that “Adam and Eve were united together” and to
“become one flesh.” The phrase “united” and “one flesh” indicate that
marriage, as it glorifies God, is to be pure and holy -- the commitment of a
man and woman only to each other. We have lost that concept in our days as
we have allowed marriage to become not an institution that glorifies God,
but an institution that is left up to the whims and desires of mankind.
Therefore, society says that if your mate no longer interests you, or if you
are tired of him/her, go out and find someone else. After all, society says
marriage is about you and your fulfillment. No, it isn’t. It is about
God -- His glory, our purity. It is about a commitment to each other for a
lifetime. That is what marriage is. This leads to the final point in
Genesis 2.
Marriage is a Commitment Before God
Marriage is not just a commitment before family, friends and a pastor, but a
commitment before the almighty God. It is a commitment that He will one day
hold us responsible for, and if that is true, then we need to go back to the
first marriage ceremony and find out how the creator of marriage wants
marriage to be. He says it does not change.
Enjoying marriage,
Pastor Bennett
Adopt a Christmas Family
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What better time to be a friend of the poor and thus a special friend of God
than at the holiday season! During the past years, ABFs, families and Home
Groups of The Chapel have experienced the blessings of
bringing the love
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“The righteous man who is the friend of the poor
is very specially the
friend of God.”
~Andrew Murray
(With Christ in the School of Prayer)
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of
Christ to financially-challenged families by their participation in the
Bethesda Outreach Ministries’ “Adopt a Christmas Family” program.
These are families (mostly inner-city) who have received assistance from Bethesda
throughout the year. Due to the economy, unemployment and other factors,
this year the need is greater than ever. Without the help of caring people,
Christmas to many will be just another day in a life of continual struggles.
Let’s join together in sharing the true meaning of Christ’s birth with those
who need encouragement most.
There are two ways you can participate:
#1: DIRECT “ADOPTION”
On or before Sunday, November 21, complete and return an Adoption Form to
the church office (copies are at the Welcome Center and in the Sunday
worship bulletins), or call Bethesda Outreach Ministries at the phone
numbers listed below. If you have elected to directly adopt a family, within a few days you will
be contacted to discuss the size family you wish to adopt.
Shortly thereafter, you will be given the name, telephone number, address
and information concerning the family assigned to you.
You may then contact the family to discuss their needs and appropriate gifts
for the members of the family. They will be expecting your call.
Purchase the gifts you have decided upon. Food is optional. Deliver the
gifts to the family a few days before Christmas. Please plan on visiting a
short time and having prayer with the family. If you have children, you may
want to take them with you. At your request, a receipt for your gifts will be provided.
Your contribution is tax deductible.
#2: INDIRECT “ADOPTION”
For those who wish to participate but prefer making a cash contribution
rather than following the “Direct Adoption” process, we can assure you that
such contributions are most welcome. They are used to purchase
Wal-Mart gift cards and/or food vouchers. Make your check payable to Bethesda Outreach Ministries and deposit it in an
offering box or turn it in to the church office. Please make sure your contribution is over and above regular tithes and
offerings. Your contribution is tax deductible and a receipt will be issued.
For more information, please call Clarence Blasier at (330) 497-0355 or
leave a message on the Bethesda Outreach Ministries answering machine at
(330) 649-0249.
LIFE DEVELOPMENT CLASSES
Sunday November 21, 2004 - 2:00 to 5:30 PM
Note: A light snack will be provided during a break in the class.
The Chapel is excited to introduce a series of Life Development Classes as
part of our new discipleship program. Following the Purpose Driven Church
model, this series takes individuals through four basic classes: 101
(Membership), 201 (Maturing), 301 (Ministry) and 401 (Mission). Sign up
at the display in the lobby or call Pastor Dan Hanny at (330)
494-3419, ext. 307.
Class 101 - Membership
If you are interested in pursuing membership at The Chapel in North Canton,
this class is for you. Class 101 is mandatory for membership and a
prerequisite for Class 201.
Class 201 - Maturing
Growing and maturing in Christ is the focus of this Life Development Class.
You must be a member of The Chapel in order to attend.
"Why Do I Love Small Groups?"
If you’ve never been in a small group, this might be a tough question to
answer. If you have been in one or are in one now, you can probably write
at least ten reasons why you enjoy small groups. At the top of my list, I
would say, is sharing life together. We share laughter and tears. We share
hopes and disappointments. We share encouraging words and challenging ones.
We share in ministry to our community. We share our prayers. We share our
love of the Word. We share our love for one another.
These are some of my
reasons. What are yours? Take some time and think about your reasons and
write them down. Then pray and ask God to help you think of ways you can
provide more opportunities for people to enjoy sharing life together in a
small group.
~Pastor Dan Hanny
OPERATION CHRISTMAS CHILD
Final Collection date is Sunday, November 14, 2004!!!
Brochures are available at the display in the church foyer. Operation Christmas Child is a unique project of Christian relief and
evangelism to children in desperate situations around the world. It is
distributed by Samaritan’s Purse, founded by Franklin Graham. The Chapel in
North Canton, along with other churches and organizations around the globe,
will share the true meaning of Christmas by filling gift boxes with toys for
these unfortunate children and their families. 1. Sign up and get a
brochure.
2. Follow the instructions in the brochure on how to complete the gift box.
3. Include $5.00 in each box for shipping.
4. Bring box(es) to the church kitchen on or before the morning of Sunday,
November 14, 2004
Questions? Call Sheri Miller at 330-644-1535 or Ruth Lair at 330-494-1035
to be a part of this project.
MISSIONS: SHIP TO SHORE ON THE
DOULOS
Operation Mobilization Ships International (OMSI) is a missions organization
which travels to ports around the world, bringing knowledge, help and hope
to the people of the world. Its vision is to impact the lives of its
visitors with the Good News of God’s love, with a desire to help each
individual, both serving on board and visiting, to take the next step
towards knowing and following Jesus Christ.
In January, 2004, The Chapel in North Canton’s own Brett
(Lioi) Hoskins, committed to give his time, energy, and love for Christ, to serve aboard the
MV Doulos (pictured left). The
Doulos is the worlds’ oldest passenger ship still afloat on the seven seas. Brett (age 20) has sent many wonderful and
inspiring letters which share the struggles about ship life, but also the
joys of seeing God working in the lives of people at the numerous ports
where the Doulos has docked. We would like to share some excerpts from
Brett’s letters to The Chapel and hope you find them as encouraging and
exciting as we do.
Brett works on the ship. He says, “Everyone on the ship has a job...a
40-hour-a-week job that they do to keep the ship running. I thought I would
be put in the engine room or in the deck department where the ‘real men’
work, but instead, I was put in the bookstore, the world’s largest floating
bookstore.” He says that, “Every day we have an average of 1,800 people
come to the bookshop, and about 75% of them know nothing about Christ! It
is funny, most missionaries have to plant churches and do street work to
really get out into their community and evangelize the people around them,
but on the ship, the people come to us -- in masses. It’s one of the
comparatively unique aspects of the ship’s ministry. Pray for us in the
bookshop; our task in showing these people the love of Christ is not always
easy.”
“In April, I spent 12 days in Rotterdam, Holland with three other guys
from the ship. We were sent out as what the ship calls an ‘A-Team’.
A-Teams spend time, a whole port away from the ship, helping local churches
and organizations to do evangelism, run soup kitchens, or anything else the
churches want them to do. In Ireland, one A-Team spent their whole time on
a farm helping a local church member whose farm was having a bad year.”
(Brett says these are just a few of the outreach tools people aboard the
ship use to share the Gospel with others around the world.)
“Let me just close by saying this: life on board the ship is hard to keep
up with. I won’t lie … there are some days I just want to be home and have
my mother cook me real food, and have a car and a real job...sometimes I
just want to be left alone, but when your cabin has 15 people in it, that
does not happen very often. As we speak, God is teaching me contentment.”
Please pray for Brett and all aboard the
Doulos that each individual would be refreshed, and that the ministry taking place would touch the
hearts of many. Also remember the many missionaries around the world whose
ministries we support through our prayers.
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